I played in a two-day four-ball event with a friend this weekend. Best ams in the area were playing. I’m a 3.3 index and my partner is a scratch.
Saturday we were awful. I shot 83 on my own ball and we shot 75 as a team. It had to be so soul crushing for my partner to watch me miss green after green. I only hit 4 greens in regulation. We weren’t DFL, but close.
Sunday we were the 2nd group off. On 1 I hit a 3 wood, then 6 iron to 4 feet and opened with a birdie! My partner birdied #2. My partner played great on Sunday, shooting a 71 (-1) on his own ball. I added in another birdie and parred one of the only holes he didn’t par, shooting 77 on my ball for a team score of 68. We left a few out there, but were happy to get to -1 for the weekend and we got 2nd in our flight, so came away with some pro shop cred.
I learned a lot. I’m at my best when I’m swinging with a little control. I also learned that the B player’s job is to make a ton of pars and don’t stress out the A player.
My partner is such a good player and an even better guy. Truly grateful he was willing to play this event with me.