When we get the occasional add-on player when we are down a man in our foursome, we do give advice when they are a “new player”, OR someone that says, “I usually play better than this” (as we look at them and see they are a “new player” to the game.) AND it can be frustrating when they are all over the yard, or topping them, or whatever. Here is our offered advice… RELAX, have fun, you’re not on tour, we don’t care how you play, not interested in you showing off, just interested that you are having a fun walk in the park. Slow it down and just make contact…we aren’t judging you, we have enuff to worry about in our own right…LOL… they actually usually play better too! We do make comments about ball direction…even me…anyone catch the general direction when I mishit…as I am blind as a bat