I won’t doubt your experiences that have led you to that conclusion, but I did think that things like DECADE have shown (and have the stats backing them up), that most people really are better, the closer they are. Even if it means a 1/2 shot or a long chip vs a full shot.
I thought @jon had a post stating such? EDIT: I really wonder what the datasets from things like ARCOS says on the subject for non-elite golfers?